Mythologies of the Êđê (Rhade) Tribe
Traditionally, the most powerful person in an Ede family is a woman, according to Doctor Nguyen Duy Thieu, Deputy Director of the Vietnam Museum of Ethnology: “Women take the initiative in marriage. They inform their mothers of who they love and intend to marry. After the wedding, a groom lives in his wife’s house. Children bear their mother’s surname. If a wife dies, her family will find another woman to marry her widower. The Ede call this custom a Chue Nue”. To some extent, this custom is human. But it can have an undesirable corollary: hampering the rights to freedom of love and selection of happiness. Dr. Thieu says although women are family leaders, men play a certain role: “Women make decisions but via the men’s position. The Dam San epic is an example. Dam San was the tribal leader, who led a war against the enemy. Though his wife was from a clan of tribe leaders, she acted behind her husband”. Ede men, either husband or son, represent the family when receiving guests to their home. Men are in charge of communal affairs, including major events of their maternal clans like funerals and weddings.
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